When you move half-way around the world, you quickly realize how much in our daily lives we take for granted–and how little sense many of those assumptions really make once you adapt and reflect. Okay, when you have to adapt and reflect . . .
For example, we knew we would have room air conditioning units in our new flat, and I recall thinking how archaic that would be, to have to walk around (on our marble floors) and turn on/off and adjust six separate, likely troublesome, old fashioned noisemakers. Worse yet, we were instructed to turn off the A/C when we were not at home. What? It rarely gets below 85f here and is nearly always in the mid 90s now (with really really high humidity) and it isn’t even the hottest season. We’ll see about that!
So, now we’ve been here a month and in many ways it feels like we have lived here forever even as we discover each day how little we truly know about India and its people. And guess what, I work at home a fair amount each day, and . . . I only turn on the one A/C unit in my office . . . and that only once in a while if it gets so stuffy I notice it. Who knew? So, I contribute daily to minimizing our energy usage and keeping those brownouts at bay. Yes, the power does go off frequently, but so far not for terribly long . . . and our building has a generator that operates everything except the A/C.
Speaking of saving energy, each bath has its own hot water heater for the lovely walk-in shower (bathtubs are rare) plus one for the kitchen. Of course, as with the A/C, you need to turn on the heater 15 minutes before you shower . . . and you better shower fast since the capacity is limited! Again, what a smart idea to conserve energy.
And while we’re in the bathroom, there’s this tidy little hose and sprayer I’ve heard called a “health faucet.” Nuff said.
For more about water, the kitchen sports three varieties: tap water for washing your hands or surfaces; filtered water to be boiled for cooking or coffee; and bubble top 5 gallon cans (jugs) for drinking water (we typically fill our water bottles from the cans to minimize plastic usage.
While we’re in the kitchen, we rather observantly noticed there was no oven, just a cooktop and a toaster oven. The AISC property management folks have graciously provided us with a small gas range so Sarah can bake me banana bread–but Shanthi, our housekeeper/cook, still prefers the toaster oven. Given the results of her cooking, she can use whatever she wants and I’ll be happy. Chicken biryani, tikka masala, aloo gobi, veg kurma, idli and sambhar, masala dosa, fresh humus, coconut chutney, peanut chutney . . . Oh, and even veg lasagna . . .the list goes on and will continue to grow as we learn more about South Indian cuisine . . . and North Indian. . . and Keralan . . . and Chettinad . . .
Just outside the kitchen, on one of our three balconies (this one is semi-enclosed) is the laundry and storage area. Right, no dryer! I’ve already shown our low energy drying rack. And beyond the door is the staff restroom, Indian style. BTW, most places have no powder room while each of our three bedrooms has a full bath.
Of course, outside our place, we get to contend–actually our temporary driver Gopi–gets to–with the traffic and the lack of lane discipline and stop signs and, as in the photo, some quick flooding whenever we have more than a moderate rain. This shot is going down the ECR (East Coast Road) the morning after a good rain the night before and we did get to experience a 6pm rush hour storm a couple weeks ago where a 20 minute trip took us an hour. We were lucky that night, as several of the faculty got to sit on the ECR for 2 hours going nowhere. Thank the gods for our drivers!
So, a month in our new digs and it’s feeling like home even though our shipment from the US hasn’t arrived yet. Can’t wait to add some of our personal touches to our flat–not to mention start wearing more than the handful of shirts I packed. We did buy an intricate wall hanging at the Kalakshetra Flea Market that was hand scribed by this artist on palm fronds. He uses a tiny needle-like scribe to etch into the dried palm and then washes over it with inks of different colors to make the design. Sarah fell in love with this one and it now hangs in our great room.
As we adapt and grow more in tune with India and Chennai and the people who live here, we realize how quickly the minor frustrations fade and are forgotten, especially when we find smiles like these from my walk the other morning with Gopi up to Broken Bridge with its view from the small fishing village north of Elliot’s Beach over the Adyar River to the elite and expensive Leela Palace Hotel as shown in the header photo. That photo is perhaps India in its physical manifestations at a single glance.
May we never take these new connections for granted . . .
And today, Ganesha Chaturthi starts . . . not to mention an AISC Board and Faculty gathering at the Crowne Plaza on TTK Road . . . and tomorrow we head down to the Covelong Point Surf and Yoga Festival . . . Stay tuned . . . and take nothing for granted.
Dear Folks,
What an education you have shared with us. It is so lovely. i am not a fan of heat but you sound like you are weathering it well. Bless you as you settle in.
You know Susan, I always despised heat and humidity and thought it might be a hard transition . . . but I’ve surprised myself with how easy it can be when it’s just the way it is and you have no alternative to covet.
So enjoy this blog! And your photos of such beautiful people. I just love the wall hanging you found. Always a delight to read about your new life David, and keep the camera with you always
Thanks so much, Joan. Any tips on the Photos much appreciated!! As Ive said, this place is magical and we have both fallen under its spell already.
Thank you, another interesting read and a better understanding of what you and Sarah discover daily. Take care.
Thanks Susan, We are amazed and delighted every day even as we recognize how much we more we have to learn.
Great job David. Really find the information you share fascinating. Keep them coming.
Thanks Mike! So glad you are enjoying our adventures.
jUST got back from spinning at Lifetime.
I think about you and Sara and what a terrific adventure you are having.
Love the smiling faces, which we saw all over our trip to India.
A special, difficult place.
My wife and I are leaving for a vaca in South Africa.
Should be exotic and interesting\\
Love the blog, keep it coming
So nice to hear from you, David! You’re right about India and its challenges as well as its magic. I hope you have a wonderful trip to South Africa!
What an experience! I will continue to appreciate the little things in life like air conditioning, my oven and hot water. I enjoy reading your blog. The information is fascinating and I certainly enjoy your beautiful photographs.
Thanks so much, Cindy! Glad you’re enjoying our adventure . . .